“My boyfriend left me for another girl, will I be able to get him back?” The simple answer to that question is “yes”. If you love the man, don’t give up on him just because someone new has entered the scene. Once you understand exactly how the male mind works, you can push certain psychological triggers within him to make him leave you and come back to you. It’s not that hard once you understand exactly what to do.

Every time a woman says “my boyfriend left me for another girl”, she will automatically compare herself to the other woman. You have to do your best to avoid doing that. It will only lead you to resent him and her, and that will be very difficult to hide. He will notice and cut you out of her life forever.

Acceptance is one of the best ways to win back an ex boyfriend who is gone. Instead of fighting with him about the fact that she has started seeing someone else, accept it. Make it clear that you’re okay with it and even happy for him. He won’t expect that reaction at all. If you happen to come across her, be kind, considerate, and civil. Let your maturity shine. He will be stunned and probably so will she.

One of the best tips if you’re still in love with an ex who’s gone is to start interacting with them on a friendship level. Right now he has a woman in his life in a romantic sense and it’s not you. As much as you want to be you, you have to accept that it’s not. Because of that, you’ll get further with him if you approach him from a place of pure, platonic friendship. Let him know that you’d love to be friends, and even suggest that the three of you be friends. Most men are very open to this because they think it’s a sign that his ex has accepted that the relationship is over.

Once you’ve become just friends, be the best friend you can be. That includes being supportive, fun, compassionate, and most of all, understanding. Allow him to share what he feels comfortable sharing with you. Don’t pressure him to talk about your relationship. In time and when he does, it will be a compassionate ear for him to vent. He will start to feel a strong connection with you again. Once your recovery relationship falls apart, it will be you who will be waiting in the wings with open arms. Remember that some of the longest lasting relationships began or were reborn as friendships.