When Valentine’s Day rolls around, our society increases its focus on couples, romance, and diamonds. What if you’re not in a meaningful relationship? You are likely to feel even more frustrated, lonely, or disappointed this time of year. But take heart, making a few easy changes to the way you manifest a soul mate will certainly produce the result you want. Take a look at the top five mistakes people make when it comes to attracting a soulmate and change your approach today.

1. forgetting to pray – First on the list for hindering your efforts to attract a soulmate is forgetting to pray. A proven method of praying to manifest a soul mate (or anything else you desire) is positive prayer or spiritual mind treatment. Positive Prayer is basically affirmative prayer, which is the foundation of all your spiritual work, so incorporate it into your routine every day. I know we are busy and lives are hectic; however, this easy and powerful method will make your heart’s desires come true. The more you feel the better because you will be more deeply aligned with the Divine Presence and that brings peace, love, joy, harmony and health just to name a few. Certainly positive. Prayer is the way to put the law of attraction into action.

two. Holding on to the past – Have you ever been in a relationship too long? Even if the relationship has ended, do you still hold on to it or even compare the new people in your life to the old ones? We become rooted, or stuck, in this pattern and there is no room in our hearts for someone new to enter until we release the past. If you’re not convinced that old ties should be left behind, consider the story of Clytie and Apollo. Clytie was a water nymph who loved the sun god Apollo with all her heart. But Apollo did not love her; he loved Daphne. Clytie wouldn’t let go of her love for Apollo. So she languished for nine days sitting all day on the cold ground without eating or drinking while her tears saturated the earth. Clytie herself would stare at the sun and she would follow Apollo, when she got up and went through her daily course. She saw nothing but Apollo with his face constantly turning to follow the movements of the sun. Finally, his limbs rooted into the ground and her face turned into a sunflower. To this day, the sunflower turns on its stem to face the sun throughout its daily course. Why? Because she retains the feeling of the nymph from which she came. Pay attention to Clytie and don’t get attached to a previous relationship or someone who doesn’t have the capacity to love you back. Plant a new seed in your consciousness, release the past with love, be thankful for the gifts given and the lessons learned. Bess the past and move on.

3. Using negative self-talk or criticism. – If you feel that no one loves you, it is easy to fall into a pattern of self-loathing, self-loathing, or even guilt or shame. However, these are very destructive and can block the flow of a partner coming into your life. When you master the art of loving kindness for yourself, your energy will attract it in the same way. Set the intention to change your thinking and you will begin to see a wonderful transformation in your life. If you start criticizing or blaming yourself for not having a partner, say: I am a worthy and loving child of God. And remember that as you increase prayer in your life, you will see these negative patterns dissolve and be replaced with kindness and love for yourself and others. Another way to dispel negative thoughts, self-criticism, or self-pity is to ask Archangel Chamuel for help. He is the angel of love and he will help you find a soul mate. He will not only help you overcome depression, unforgiveness, pain, and grief, but he will also help you deepen compassion for yourself and others.

Four. Outline or tell God how– We are very good at telling God how to do something and how it should look, which is called an outline. While we want to have a specific image in our mind of our soulmate, for example someone who has certain characteristics like loving, humorous, intelligent, kind, gentle, etc., we don’t want to tell God who that person is. is or what hair color or body shape the person should have or where we should meet them (for example, at work, at the gym, at church, on the Internet). So remember to have a mental equivalent of you and your soulmate having fun together, but please don’t have a specific person in mind. If you do, you are limiting the Power and could eliminate a wonderful partner that the Spirit unites you with. So be flexible and let God do the work.

5. Focusing on physical beauty.– In our youth-obsessed society, we can fall into the trap of thinking that we have to spend a lot of money on cosmetic surgery, painful and expensive injections to reduce wrinkles or take the latest diet pill to be attractive enough for true love . According to a recent study, more than half a million teens have an eating disorder. This is largely due to the media’s emphasis on a rail-thin body that just isn’t realistic. Advertisers have admitted to airbrushing photos of models to make their waists abnormally thin. Many women (and men too) try to achieve an unnatural and unrealistic look and may even become obsessed with this pursuit. Don’t fall into this trap. The important thing is to keep your physical body fit, exercise regularly and eat right to stay physically fit and radiate beauty from within. Your soulmate will be drawn to a beautiful spirit, one that is achieved through spiritual aptitude, not surgical procedures. When you are in spiritual alignment with God, your ego cannot prompt you to have negative thoughts or sadness. A spiritually animated person is attractive from the inside out and that is a magnet for true love.

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Above all, on Valentine’s Day and every day, remember that you are always connected with God; therefore, always connected to love. Every time you fear loneliness, you feel separated from God. So celebrate the Divine Love within you and know that if you are looking for a soulmate relationship and don’t fall into the traps listed above, that soulmate relationship is on its way to you on Cupid’s wings right now.