Hey man,

I’ll tell you exactly how you can get your wife interested in giving you oral sex. Her wife is not giving him oral for one of the following 8 reasons.

1. She believes that giving oral sex is only done by prostitutes and that it is “degrading” and/or disgusting.

2. She’s not interested in giving you oral sex because she doesn’t see the “point” of putting effort into something she feels is “not worth it.” Later I will explain how you can make it worthwhile for her.

3. His wife is inexperienced and rarely gives oral sex to someone, she is afraid of making oral sex fail and embarrassing herself.

4. She’s too self-conscious, maybe she’s overweight or just lacking in self-confidence, so she feels inadequate or thinks she looks dumb/stupid when she’s giving you oral sex.

5. She’s really bad at giving you oral sex, and people don’t like to do what they’re bad at.

6. Your penis is too hairy, it smells bad and you are no longer attractive to her because you don’t take care of yourself and other women don’t find you attractive either.

7. Giving you oral sex doesn’t turn her on because you ask her to, beg for it, and put yourself in a position of low power in your relationship. Cheap and junk persuasion tactics rarely work. They usually just give you less oral sex.

8. She has no idea how important having a good head is to you, and she also doesn’t know how giving you good oral sex can transform your relationship. On the other hand, you don’t know how to persuade her to fall in love with giving you oral sex by brainwashing her and rewarding her when she behaves the way you want (for example, she gives you good oral sex).

These are 8 common reasons why your wife is not interested in giving you a blowjob yet. I’ll tell you how to solve 3 of the reasons listed above just to get you started.

1. You can resolve the former (his thinking that oral sex is demeaning/for prostitutes only) by being as uncritical as possible. If she thinks she’ll see her as less valuable if she talks dirty and just goes and enjoys herself sexually, she won’t. The only way to get her to loosen up and have fun instead of putting pressure on her during sex is to relax and be totally confident. She loves her whole body and kisses her whole body. She needs to feel that you accept every part of her.

2. Shave, shower and groom yourself. Your penis has to be impeccable and cozy. Next, you have to make yourself more attractive to society. Go to the gym, get a better job, earn more money, get a higher status, get more social power and friends, get a hobby, travel to exotic places. All this contributes to make you more interesting and valuable. Stop watching TV all day and do something interesting with your life. Increase your self-confidence and perform better in bed. All of this will make giving him oral sex more interesting to his wife (and to other women as well, which, as a result, will make it EVEN MORE interesting to his wife).

3. I forgot the number five. Another thing you should do is, again, be as uncritical as possible. She has to know that you won’t think less of her if she gives you a bad oral. You will not leave her or divorce her. Let her know that she can practice with you all day if she wants and try to make oral sex more FUN for her, not just a chore or job.