The hotwife or cuckold fantasy is very popular among men, but even though they think about it often, it’s rare that they really think about it very deeply.

And the problem with this is that the things you need to do to make the hotwife lifestyle appeal to your wife means sitting down and thinking about it a little deeper than you’ve been doing, simply because when it comes to these things , men and women have a very different approach.

To consider: For men, the cuckolding fantasy is really about watching, listening, and having their beloved recount their experiences of having the hottest, dirtiest sex imaginable with another man.

That is. It is to romance what the Terminator movies are to scholarship.

But for women, that idea just doesn’t appeal to them. I’m not saying that women don’t have powerful sexual drives like men, of course they do. purpose for most women the emotional component comes first. Sure, plenty of women have had no-strings-attached one-night stands, but it’s much rarer than it is among men (and the fact that we talk about it when we find out about it tells us it’s much rarer).

So when a man describes his desires and motivations to get his wife to cuckold him, he usually gets it completely wrong, because he will try to sell her on a wild night of riotous sex with a virtual stranger while her husband watches. .

For so many, many reasons, most women will find it blows out faster and faster than a string vest and nose hair.

Here’s an alternate scenario for the…

Hotwife’s Last Night

Well, let’s imagine you’ve sold him on the idea of ​​sleeping with someone else at least in principle and have NOT fried his brain with visions of hot and dirty sex as seen in your favorite porn movie (that will all come later as you grows in her role as hotwife).

How to do this is beyond the scope of this article, but it’s not as difficult as you might imagine.

But assuming you’ve done that, now imagine this:

You, your wife, and your wife’s potential new lover enjoyed a nice meal together and shared a few bottles of wine. Everybody’s sorry, but nobody’s drunk or anything like that.

They both invited him and she said that, in principle, he is fine… but without promises.

The whole time they are nonchalantly flirting with each other dropping lots of hints and innuendoes, and you are cheering them up with your comments, smiles and body language.

Then comes that moment when they exchange that look, she takes his hand, smiles at you, and leads him to your bedroom, leaving you to pick up the remaining dishes and lock up for the night.

When you get to bed yourself, they are in bed. Your bed.

The door is locked and you can hear them talking and laughing from time to time.

Then the conversation stops and there is silence.

You lie in the next room straining your ears for the first signs of lovemaking…and then you hear it.

Maybe it’s a gasp or a sigh. Sometimes it’s the bed hitting the wall.

Every once in a while it’s a loud moan…

But whatever it is, you hear it, and you can only imagine exactly what he’s doing to her at that precise moment to elicit that response.

And before you know it they are in full swing and you can hear everything… the moans, the moans, the thumping of the bed and the pleas and pleas of your own wife to make love to me, give it to me. Hard, make me run, run run…

And she’s doing it for you just as much as she’s doing it for herself and him.

Now, can you see how if you were to describe your fantasy as a story, a possible future scenario like this, which is romantic instead of just raunchy sex, your loved one is going to be much more receptive to your ideas?