According to most romantic movies, the beginning of any touching relationship begins with a kiss. There is a movement that exceeds you in effectiveness and that will not leave you exposed and vulnerable to rejection either. But let’s go back for a second: the most common knowledge these days about attracting women makes it seem that if you can make a woman comfortable with your touch, then a physical relationship can begin.

This is sound reasoning and follows logic, but what leaves out this little detail is the fact that love and emotions are not a logical construct. I offer you a very different line of reasoning as to why a kiss can be the beginning of a relationship between a man and a woman. There are two aspects of a kiss that make it very viable to start a relationship, and it is only because of these two aspects that a traditional kiss is effective.

1. Kissing is a manifest physical movement, it shows your physical attraction for a woman. Trying to kiss her makes it unlikely that a woman will have any questions about why you like her. You can flirt with a girl all night, but that can be harmless and fun. Kissing is an open movement. You can no longer deny that you did not know what was going on.

2. Kissing is a physical movement that allows her to reciprocate if she shares your attraction to her. Now you no longer try to seduce or trap her. You are no longer on separate teams, you end up on the same team.

The process of two people coming together on the same team with mutual attraction is called It’s On Moment. When you think about it, this is exactly why most “traditional” methods of trying to attract a woman don’t work. Asking a woman for her phone number is not a time when it is activated because getting her number is not physical. On the other hand, the simple act of touching a woman and making her feel comfortable with your touch does not create an It’s On Moment because she is not touching you, it is not mutual.

I’m sure every time you go to the club you see a bunch of guys pounding on women on the dance floor, only to see these same women walk away moments later without even saying goodbye. Why did he leave? Because despite his caresses or how aggressive these guys thought they were, he didn’t create a mutual physical moment with her. There was no connection and, more importantly, there was no overt physical movement to show his attraction to her. Therefore, you most likely don’t even remember that you danced with him at the end of the night. So this is the moment you’ve been waiting for, what move is MORE powerful than kissing and so covert that she could never reject you for it?

Mutual caressing of the hand

The mutual caress of the hands is so powerful because it creates a feeling like “we are a new couple” within her. Endorphins? Check. Dopamines? Check. You are now officially on the same team. They are working together. This is what a new partner naturally does to each other; playing with other people’s hands, etc. This magical moment also makes it more likely that you will continue to comply with future physical escalations and requests; the comfort built during each other’s caresses triggers her feelings of security while being physical with you. So how do you use this to create an It’s On Moment?

Too easy …

1. Take her hand

2. Hold it down for a few seconds.

3. Begin gently stroking her hand until she returns your hand.

The key is that you want to quickly go from holding hands to stroking hands. The reason you don’t hold her hand for long is because women associate “holding on” with men in need. Instead, leave your hand slightly open and give him a chance to push it away or stroke it. Keep in mind that holding hands will not create the same powerful sensation as mutual hand stroking.

This is the easiest and most consistent way to get to the moment of It’s On. That’s because the easiest part of your body for her to feel comfortable touching is your hands. Think about it. A woman is not going to start stroking your legs at random. Most men spend all their time worrying about touching HER. Instead, make it easier for HER TO TOUCH YOU.

By holding her hand first, we are accelerating the process of reaching a moment of mutual caress. Don’t be the average guy who leaves this moment to chance. Remember that it is up to YOU ​​to make this moment happen.

What if she doesn’t take my hand or push it away?

Unlike going for a kiss and being rejected, if she doesn’t hold your hand, you can just ignore it and try again later. You see, her rejection of your advances in terms of holding hands will never come true unless you acknowledge that you made an effort to scale with her and failed. Compared to an all or nothing movement like kissing her, there is simply NO comparison to mutual hand caresses, because these are the ONLY possible results!

1. She pulls her hand away, you know she has a bit of work to do before trying again, but make no mistake, this will always work as a good indicator of her level of interest in you.

2. If he doesn’t remove his hand, but he’s still not stroking you, you’re in a good place! She staggers closer and closer to the edge of being COMPLETELY ON between the two of you.

3. There are mutual caresses. Congratulations, it’s OFFICIALLY ACTIVATED!

Here’s something else to ponder on the advantages of hand stroking vs. going for the kiss:

* You have infinite more chances to have your hand stroked with ease than to go for a kiss.

* You don’t have to create a perfect moment to try it out.

* Mutual hand caresses are easier to do with other people around.

* You don’t have to have her alone first

* If you get stamina, it requires absolutely no damage control – it’s a real test of where the two of you stand.

* Does not reduce tension and keeps you in an aura of defiance.

A woman’s hands NEVER lie.

Women with little interest will go so far as to let you TRY to kiss them. Of course she will walk away and give you the ceremonial cheek. She may even pretend to be shy so as not to hurt your feelings. But one thing women with little interest will NEVER do is caress each other’s hands. You will notice that she absolutely will not caress your hands when you caress hers. He has no problem laughing, smiling, and making eye contact with you. That’s because all of these things are easy to fake. The mutual caress of the hands is the only thing that is not. It will fill it.

Stroking hands is something that only people who really like each other (i.e. new partners) do. And if she doesn’t like you, the lack of hand caresses will be a clear indication that you are with a woman who is not very attracted to you. That is why you always look for his hands first. Because I have a secret for you. With enough time and repetition of the above tactic, while she is still around … The moment she is on is INEVITABLE!

Once you have created an It’s On Moment by following the above, the FULL FIELD is now open for you and all doors to take the interaction to the NEXT level have been unlocked.