I often write about choosing the sex of your baby at home without the expense of a clinic or gender specialist. Recently, I received an email from a woman saying “I want to have a baby. What can I do to make sure this happens without spending a lot of money?” I will answer this question and offer tips and advice to facilitate this in the next article.

What you need to know if you want a baby boy: If your goal is to have a child, then your true goal is really, only, just this: you want the sperm Y chromosomes to reach your egg and fertilize it first. With this deal done, if you do get pregnant, you’ve had your only chance. That’s because this Y sperm makes boys and the X sperm makes girls. A man’s sperm contains both chromosomes, so he will have to get rid of the Xs or slow them down so that the Ys have the best chance.

Before I get into how to do that, I need to tell you why these things work the way they do. The good news is that the boy who produces sperm is the faster of the two, in fact, by far. The bad news is that they are the weakest, also by far. So you will need to find a happy middle ground where you can take advantage of speed and lessen the weakness that will often prevent you from succeeding. I’ll review three ways to do this below.

Right time on first try: The first thing I’m going to talk about is the moment. Since these guys are so weak, they can’t afford the time. If you wanted a girl, you could conceive up to three days before your ovulation date and be fine, because the X sperm will have no problem waiting. This is not true if you want a blue nursery.

However, this is not your reality if you want a child. If you force these chromosomes to wait, they will weaken or die. At best, their speed may no longer be a factor, and at worst, they won’t be around to run. Therefore, you will have to wait and wait until the day of your ovulation. But the problem is that you must be absolutely sure that you are right. You cannot and should not guess.

I made this mistake and it almost cost me. I assumed I was ovulating in the middle of the cycle, but when I get an ovulation predictor from saliva, I found out that I was trying six days earlier. This could have been a big mistake. If I had been successful in getting pregnant, it would have increased my chances of having a girl instead of a boy. Fortunately, I was unsuccessful that month and had another chance.

If you want a baby, be sure to lower the PH of your vagina: If you introduce sperm that are already vulnerable into an acidic vaginal environment, you are definitely shortening their lifespan. To be as friendly as possible with these little ones, you should lower your PH.

Here is what I think is the easiest way to do this. First, get a saliva pH tester or strips from a health food store or online. Follow the instructions and test yourself to see what you have to work with. You may already be quite alkaline, which means it will be easier for you.

It doesn’t matter where you fall, determine if you want to follow a low PH diet or if you want to douche or both. There are pros and cons to both approaches. Not everyone likes to limit the types of food they can eat (although you only have to do this until you reach and maintain a low PH). And, not everyone is going to douche (again, this can be a short process). But I can tell you that if you want the fastest results, you can combine both methods and try them all, continuing to test with the strips so that you are having your best success. Examples of acidic foods to avoid are most meats, corn, and coffee.

The sexual positions that are most likely to give you a male baby: Okay, here’s a pop quiz. Remembering that a boy’s sperm are weak and cannot survive a long hard journey, what sexual positions will work best if you want a child? Yes, deep penetration. This seems to be self explanatory, but many people make the mistake of not calculating the height and weight of both partners, among other things. What works very well for one couple may not be very effective for another. It is important to experiment with what works best for you. Putting a pillow under your hips or lifting your legs a little can help.

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